Psychology the most dominant weapon --1
Now we are in an age
where we don’t have time to think to find a solution for any muddle we enter
into and seek a tip or two from anybody even whom we don’t know. Why this. We
are well educated we are well knowledged. But we lack the expertise to face a
problem. Having got, say it brought, so much sociability in our work culture,
are we acting soulfully. Definitely not. Because what we are importing from the
west is in the form of a dogma or a canon which when implemented is not giving
the desired result. The defect also lies with the people who mostly have hypocritical
approach to things. Then such people land in the state of jealousy and neither have
they lived happily nor allow the others mainly the subordinates in the office.
Such people can never digest the high ground of his/her adjuvants. For all such
subordinates whom I consider the real working force to accomplish the given task,
give here under a few tips which will definitely save if followed and executed
mindfully. As you (he/she) know the hardest task is to get what you want. Here
I try to give you a few psychological tips which may deal with your boss on the
mental plane and keep you in a safe haven.
Contd:
Psychology the most dominant weapon --2
Offer him/she something they cannot deny. Your careful thinking helps you here.
Nod while he/she is explaining something. This makes him to note that you
are submissive and polite and enables the other person more inclined to agree
with you.
Stare at the hairline of his/her head who talk is insipid. It makes him\her
uncomfortable. But remember you should not enter into, giving any advice or arguing
with him\her.
For girls especially, if someone is mad at you, sit next to them in a
meeting or a social gathering so that they cannot stay mad at you.
Notice the way people talk, and talk to them in a similar fashion to make
them to like you more.
Stay silent after making a statement, people will tend to agree more.
In a meeting arranged by you, take them for coffee than for a feast as it
makes you to speak only important things. If it is otherwise your conversation
may land in unproductive topics and thus making you forget what you actually
want.
Psychology the most dominant weapon --3
Write things in bold to attract attention.
Better you opt for typing than writing if you are not good at writing. If you
are good at writing let it be bold and beautiful.
Use nouns instead of verbs to get people to
change their behavior. For example, than to say ‘you come sir’, ‘your presence
graces the occasion sir’.
Scare people to listen to you when presenting
them with solutions.
To get a song out of your head, think of how
the song ends. This reveals your clear perception of the task you have taken
up.
If you want someone to believe something, tell
them it comes from an elder in your family.
Move your hands while giving a presentation to
grab attention.
Speak faster in an argument for getting your
opponent to give up and agree with you.
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