One Moment Please (Personality Development)
Part - 2
Behind every specific telephone call, whether it is to converse, teach
or preach or encourage or comfort or rebuke there is a deeper call that gives
shape to the call; it’s the relationship that we have with the
person! If somebody is harsh, you feel, and he is your well-wisher take a
little pause think and rethink about it
And then call him for a
discussion. If he is right accept him. For any relationship to be successful,
there needs to be loving communication, appreciation, and mainly understanding!
Remember talking beats texting when you’re in isolation,
upset or distressed , by bringing back the intimacy . So return the calls of
your loved ones, if you miss them! Mind you depression or arrogance or ego may lead to hostility.
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Good Deeds
The
benefits that good deeds have on people are quite amazing. It’s interesting
that even if you do not do for reasons what so ever, the good deeds and someone
else does them to you or to anybody whom you are observing due to your
helplessness, you feel happy. Good deeds also lower stress, enhances moods and
boosts immune system and apart from this people become more social, make
friends and can get a sense of purpose.
Doing
good deeds doesn’t have to be a daunting task. You can make a difference by how
you conduct your life, live your values and do good deeds whether they be big
or small. Know that, good deeds are also good for you!
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Mistakes
We all make mistakes;
it's what makes us human. Our character is revealed by how we handle errors and
how we respond to them. Many of us frequently start berating ourselves right
away for our mistakes. Let's not view our errors solely negatively; rather,
instead let's see them as chances for improvement. Sincere self-reflection on
our mistakes will inspire us to act more responsibly!!
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Remember that
mistakes can teach us valuable lessons that can help us become the greatest
versions of ourselves possible, including becoming more effective, being
patient with ourselves and others, and avoiding repeating the same mistakes!
LOVE
Love interacts with our very being at the deepest levels,
whether it is about an ideal, family member, a stranger or the one person you
cannot live without and even love of ideals as well, where you show how you
feel for your country, for justice, for honor or whatever else holds great
meaning to you. Only when we allow ourselves to fall in love with someone or
something, be it a person, an animal and a thing, or even God, will our life
truly come to life!
The forms of love are boundless and finding
love, in all its forms, is important to us. Remember ‘Love’ is a perennial resource,
the more we give, give more, and that the more we have to give.
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Everyone knows how to visualize a dream house, but
only an architect knows how to create the actual blueprint on paper and convert
the castle in the air to real estate. Similarly,
in your life ,check on two things. Are you
able to visualize your life clearly? Can you create that blueprint on paper
with a proper structure? If you are unable to do any one of the two, seek
someone's help who knows how to do it.
Have a mentor in life who can help you,
design your life and career, cheer you on, provide feedback, guide ,advise, and
help you define and reach your goals. It can be a key relationship in your life
and one that has the potential to impact your life choices and career
trajectory significantly.Find a good mentor if you dont have one. ****************************************************************
Silence
Silence
helps us understand ourselves and tune in to our inner wisdom and creativity
When we are with people, silence helps
us be present and connect with
others, and when we are stuck or confused, silence brings us enormous insights.
Remember ,sometimes, what is not said is just as important.
Spend
time contemplating the value of silence as you do contemplating the
value of what is said. Silence is a long-lasting friend; nurture it, pay
attention to it.
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Retrospect
We have an explanation for every one
of our failures and ownership
claims on every one of our successes.
Instead, if it was reverse, i.e., if we
had staked ownership on all our
failures and owed explanation for
every success of ours, don't you
think life would have been more meaningful? The day we start
attributing our successes to external
sources and start accepting our failures as our own,
the blame game will stop, and
meaningful relationships will start flourishing.
Lift
Your Standards’
The only bird that dares to peck an eagle is the black
Drongo . It sits on the eagle's back and bites its neck. However, the eagle
doesn't respond or fight with the Drongo. It does not spend time or energy with
the Drongo. It just opens its wings and begins to fly higher in the sky. The
higher the flight, the harder it is for the Drango to breathe and the Drongo
eventually falls due to lack of oxygen.
Not all battles you need to respond to. Nor arguments nor
critics you need to respond. Just lift up a standard, they'll fall off! Just
take them to your height, they can not sustain and fall down.
. The enemy may sit on your back and bite your neck. But remember, the race is not for the swift,
nor the battle to the strong, nor the bread to the wise, nor riches to men of
skill, but time and chances happen to them all without ignoring.
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Whatever
the crop Water is a must
A farmer grows different crops under different conditions
giving different outputs, but one thing which is a must is water which he has
to provides without fail. Similarly whether we grow children, friends, family,
customers, vendors or team, we should ensure to provide every oneb of them
sufficient love without fail.
Love for people is what water for crops.Love is the
strongest energy\force on earth, we need to to give without execuse.
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Know thyself first
In the landscape of life, your most important relationship is
the one you have with yourself. So never lie to yourself.
When you deceive yourself, you enter an illusionary environment
where true insight and personal progress are unattainabl .
But when you are hones t with yourself it paves
the way for genuine self-discovery and lasting fulfilment.
Accept the power of self-reflection, admitting both your talents
and flaws with complete honesty.
Remember that honesty is the compass that points you in the
direction of self-awareness, growth, and authenticity.
*************************************************When we throw away a mix of sand and sugar as waste, the ants will pick the sugar from the sand and not waste a single grain. Similarly, we need to learn the art of picking the sweetness in a human being instead of throwing the relationship away because they are a mix of sweet and bitter.!
Everyone has good and bad qualities. We must not always look at
the bad qualities but also focus on the good ones, because we
all have flaws.
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empathy
The
more deeply you influence or touch someone's life
in a positive way through compassion,
support, empathy,
or inspiration, your own emotional and
spiritual riches grow.
Giving back to others, building meaningful
relationships,
and leaving a positive legacy can
provide true enjoyment
and richness to life!!
The measure of our wealth is not by
material possessions
but by the positive impact we have on
the lives of others,
emphasizing the significance of making a
difference
in the world and in the lives of those
around us.
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